I suppose you get to the point in life where nothing appears to be important to you? I find this to be true with a certain member of our family. This person has no regard for others feelings and makes no effort to control her actions. Contempt is all this person can offer when you bring things to ease the situations where they live. You can do and do for this person and there's no appreciation for your efforts. It's as if they think it's something expected of you and you owe it to them. Oh my!