Still No Job........

It's going on 2 months and she still isn't trying to get a job. It's as if she thinks that she can do odd jobs and lay around with her boyfriend at his Mom's house or here. I've pushed and gotten down right mad at her many times. All to no avail. She just goes over to his Mom's and stays away from me for a few days, until I cool down or need her to do something. I'm getting to the point I don't want to do anything for her, and let her tough it out. The bad thing is, when they can't find some type of odd job to do, then things start coming up missing. No one has yet to catch her boyfriend, but they have been accused of several items, that are missing.