Don't See It....

I remember all the times I put myself through traumatic situations, because I wanted to be in a relationship.  I felt that maybe I could the the right person, for this man and make things happen for us.  I just couldn't see what everyone else already knew.  I found out much too late that there wasn't any hope for a relationship to be founded and established with this man.  He was too selfish and demanding to give the love that was needed to meld a relationship and make it health for both of us.  Today, I watch as my children live these types of situations, and wonder how I could help them.  Nay, I'm sure because they need to grow in their lives as I had to and the part that's the hardest.