It's come down to the fact that the 3 of us are getting a bit older and our eyes are starting to give us fits. Last week my sister's sister in law had cataract surgery, I've been needing to get this done for some time now. Then this week my sister had to have surgery for a "detached retina" and she's in real sad shape. In a few weeks I head to the eye doctor to get my eyes checked and then it's on to the trauma ahead which I will be facing. I am not ready for this and keep asking myself, how did I get this old? So, I call us the "3 blind women"......yuck!