You are glad to hear from your child and want to know how they are doing and the way things are going for them. You don't want to put up with a drunk who is beyond reasonable thinking and wanting to whine to Momma. After the second call, you get enough of the crap and reject the next one. These calls have been every 3 to 4 minutes and nothing's really getting said or done. When you reject that call, get ready for the onslaught of gripes that this person will give you on the voice mail.