I recently saw a person that I had chance to talk with, years back. This person had problems and I was the one she chose to vent to. I offered the best advice I could think of at that moment. Today, this person let me know that I was the only one who had encouraged her to do, what she did. The result of her decision, produced a lovely child, that she now cherishes. What a nice way to give someone the courage to do what they really wanted to do anyway.